February 12th, 2010 Posted in Diary | No Comments »
Hello!
Last week I spoke at Seduire.ca (the French Lair) in Montreal. Some of the guys there thought that I was out of business because my blogs hadn’t been updated in over a year. I have never really been the “blogging” type you know. But I’ve made a decision that this year, 2010 I will change that habit and I will blog.
“What happened to you Ghita? Where did you go for the whole of 2009?”
Answer:
I took one very long vacation. It was a much needed one. And it was fantastic. I met a man and he has simply changed my world from upside down to right-side up.
Love always,
Ghita
A Question From A FaceBook Friend
Ghita,
You appear to be so sexy and so successful. What’s your secret? I remember when I first met you, you were just like everyone else in terms of struggling to make it, and ordinary and now you’re flying everywhere and more gorgeous than ever. What can I say, I feel a twinge of jealousy… and I don’t even know you that well!
Can you offer me some advice? Did energy healing really change your life that much? What helped catapult you that way it did? I’ve been going through therapy for awhile (body-psychotherapy) and I feel change is slow in my life, I am struggling more now than I ever have. Life should be fun and awesome, instead of endless uphill mountains to climb. Or at least mostly fun and sometimes a mountain here and there. I figure ask the ones who have success for help rather than asking your friends who are just as blind.
Any words of wisdom, advice or something I haven’t heard before or thought of will be very appreciated.
Take it or leave it,
Peace to you,
Feme
Hi Feme,
Seriously I don’t have a secret. I met a man, fell in love and he just so happens to live in California. We’ve been having trouble getting an extended visa (more than 6 months) so I fly back and forth a lot.
I love to travel and I make it happen for me by saving my money. And also by knowing people who live in various parts of the world, therefore I never have to pay for a hotel.
I found an activity that I really like doing, dancing, and I go to classes every chance I get, or just groove around my living room. In the summer I bike, and swim.
I try new things every opportunity I get. I don’t want to miss out on life.
I go to therapy, but I have never heard of body-psychotherapy?
I read a lot of books that I enjoy reading. I make myself a yearly plan, then a 5 year plan, and a 10 year plan.
I quit smoking. I have a lot of sex. And I eat well, sometimes too well!
I cannot say that energy healing changed my life because I have not really been doing “energy healing” per say.
I think being truthful to people around me has been the most positive influencing thing I have done for myself.
You might also want to consider the fact that it is the middle of winter in Montreal and it can be very hard on everyone during the winter, money, energy, and the sun can be difficult to find. As well as time for yourself.
I am definitely not perfect Feme, I have just been trying to make the very best out of my life with what talents and resources I do have.
I don’t know if any of the above helped you out at all. Maybe there is something I can clarify?
Also, it was not always like this. For a very large part of my life things were far from perfect. You know I spent most of my time from the age of 12 until 18 in the hospital? And then I was in an unhealthy relationship for four years after that?
There is this illusion that people all of a sudden get beautiful and brilliant and rich and talented but in reality it takes time and a lot of work and effort to succeed in the areas you want to succeed. Either that or a big lucky break, which unfortunately is rare to come by.
Good luck on your journey Feme, wherever it may take you.
♥
Ghita
